Today is Lucas’s 12th birthday! He’s a great kid and we’re proud to be his parents. Allow me to share a bit about who is he at 12.
Lucas’s favorites:
Color: orange (still!)
Food: Barbacoa (followed closely by lasagna, chicken quesadillas and steak fajitas)
Animal: cats! (domesticated and wild)
Books: Endling Trilogy by Katherine Applegate, Ivan and Friends series by Katherine Applegate, and the Harry Potter series by J.K. Rowling.
Movie: Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix
Soccer Teams: Manchester United and Detroit City FC
We asked Lucas to list his favorite bird, but that proved to be an impossibility.
Jaime: Lucas, what’s your favorite bird?
Lucas: I don’t know if I can pick one, I love all birds.
Jaime: But if you HAD to pick one?
Lucas: *thinks hard* Hmmm, maybe blue herons? But I also love chickadees. And titmice! Oh and cardinals and blue jays. Wait, I also really like macaws. And snowy egrets! Oh, also piping plovers, and green winged teals…I really like those guys. Oh, and eagles!!
I asked him what makes him the happiest, and he said being at home with Jaime and me and Alena (let’s hear it for the introverts!). He also loves snuggling with the cat. And what makes him the most annoyed? When I badger him to brush his teeth. (Sorry, not sorry!!)
Lucas is a big brother extraordinaire. I’m thankful for how well the kids (usually) get along and how many things they find to do together! Lucas is fun and creative. They’ve continued to bang away at my eardrums this summer with the loud and boisterous adventures they dream up for their toys. Lucas is a fan of tournaments and comes up with various challenges and games for their stuffed animals. But their very favorite thing to do is wrestle. Of course. Try as we might, Jaime and I find it nearly impossible not to stand around cringing and imploring them to be careful! It is, however, wonderful to hear the squealing and laughter and joy.
Lucas is also a great caretaker and this summer he has been taking Alena to the park in exchange for books! I asked him what he thought was fair, and he decided five park visits should equal one book. It’s a pretty sweet deal for me! I send them off, hand in hand, (with my cell phone just in case) and I get an hour to do some work in peace. I only had to drive to the park once for an emergency bathroom assist and once that was squared away, they insisted on walking home as planned. He also is in charge of Alena a few hours a week while I tutor from my home office and has done a great job with that responsibility.
Soccer has always been Lucas’s favorite sport but in the last year his interest in the global game has skyrocketed. For his 10th birthday he got the video game FIFA ’21 which played a major role in his growing obsession with international soccer. He watched many games from last year’s women’s European Championship and men’s World Cup and is currently enjoying this year’s women’s World Cup. He has embraced his heritage and supports the Netherlands and Peru national teams! (It doesn’t hurt that the Netherlands wear a bright orange jersey).
Lucas routinely checks the latest FIFA rankings and even invents his own international tournaments which he then plays out on FIFA ’23 (last year’s Christmas present!). He has also become an avid English Premier League fan, his favorite team being Manchester United. Last season they lost to one of their biggest rivals (they who shall not be named) 7-0 and he took it personally! He worked through his emotions by beating the unnamed rival on FIFA ’23 with every single other Premier League team. This summer Crystal Palace played in Detroit during their preseason tour of the States. Lucas and Jaime went to the game and Lucas got to walk out with the players before the game. It was pretty exciting to watch him on TV! Between that and the fact that Crystal Palace have an eagle on their crest, they were an excellent candidate for his second favorite team.
Lucas has also grown a lot as a player in the last year. He’s always loved playing soccer but this year has been motivated to put in extra training time. Last winter he set a goal for himself to practice every day in the month of February and he saw what a big difference that made when he got on the field. In all the years that Jaime has coached Lucas, he’s been careful to offer but never push Lucas to do extra training. It’s fun to see the tables turned; now it’s Lucas who is asking rather than Jaime offering! His new season kicks off this week and he can’t wait to get back on the pitch with his team!
Lucas recently unearthed some of his past interests. After taking a road trip to Florida over spring break and to Tennessee this summer, he has gotten back into hunting for license plates. He’s drawn Alena into it as well, and they like to see how many they can find even for short trips around town. Because we live in a university town, you’d be surprised how many different states we can locate in a ten mile radius! For months didn’t see any Washington D.C. plates, and then one week we saw three within the span of two days. Go figure! Geography is another love that has resurfaced and ties in closely with the license plate hunt and his love of animals and soccer. He loves taking trips as well, and hopes some day to visit many different countries!
This year Lucas started clarinet in 5th grade band and has enjoyed learning to play! I dusted off my old clarinet and we had fun practicing together. In May, we attended his first ever band concert! I’ve never enjoyed a loud and squawky rendition of Hot Cross Buns and Go Tell Aunt Rhody more. (Side note…Lucas fell on the floor laughing when I shared with him the lyrics of Go Tell Aunt Rhody. After three lines of anticipation, he was not expecting a dead goose.)
Lucas is still our sweet and affectionate boy, although now that he’s 12, he prefers to be sweet and affectionate exclusively at home. We understand and do our best not to blow his cover when he’s in public. He loves to have focused time with each of us and one of his favorite things to do is sit and talk with Jaime and me after Alena goes to bed. He still enjoys reading with me and provided I can stay awake (which is challenging since he’s an incurable night owl), we spend many evenings doing just that before he heads off to bed. I love those quieter moments with him! Lucas is a gift and we are so grateful that he’s ours.
Happy birthday, Lucas. We love you so much!